Back in 2010, i was a stay a home wife. I qas pregnant when started, but i had the apartment very clean, dishes done, dinner was cooked and still hot when Dustin got home from work. Also, had pantry ans freezer setup so anytime he could easily find a snack. Only thing I was behind in was laundry cause had no units in apartment and had to go up the street to laundrymat.
Jump to 2014, after moving states, i had quit my job when grandfather passed suddenly and was having to help grandma and stay with her, she was on oxygen. Grandma paid me to help her some, but i was staying with her sunday night though friday evening. I was get to house and find where dirty dishes everywhere on counter. I would spend hours friday night cleaning the house back to clean. I would buy paper plates to cut down on dishes. Still Dustin would get mad at dirty dishes all week. I still had precooked and portioned food for him.
Jump to 2019 and Sherri moves in, the real dishes are back, but dirty dishes everywhere still and messy house. I had stopped cooking meals ahead of time for Sherri to cook for them while I was gone all week, but would still have to spend all weekend cleaning up after them and the growing number of pets.
Now its 2023, been in my house (own it) since early 2022 and its still same as last place, but im here all time now and able to try to keeo it clean but im called a b**** for making Sherri feel bad if i take over cleaning, also called a b**** for not helping.
